I cant say I know whose got the best AP, but the newer Raymarine EV series I have significantly improved on their earlier versions.
Sailing to wind Vane settings to get the best out of it one needs to spend some time setting everything up. If the sails are poorly balanced, then almost any AP will struggle as the wind gust comes and it starts to round up etc. The new Raymarine AP is as intuitive as it can be using a gyro, For example as soon as the boat starts to heal a bit more from increased wind or from skew of say stern quarter swell the AP will apply a bit more weather helm early on before and in anticipation of a course movement. This results in better course holding when sailing, but to be honest if your motoring only in a swell the AP is expecting you start to round up with the roll., so you need to adjust accordingly.
Sailing using wind vanes settings you need to experiment with the dampening of your wind angle source and how quick that responds, along with sail balancing. AP will not pinch the wind as we can, and many do, so it must have sufficient angle to allow at least 5 degrees course change pending the conditions. Other than that it can do a great job.. The new ones will auto tune to some extent, so it will learn & try to adjust for any oversteering.
Its ETA is very good so long as you are using VMG and if mutli leg or routed course it can update ETA based on the route or next WP. Of course if VMG changes well so to will your ETA. Or you can feed it an expected/planned VMG and it will give you an ETA
I haven’t been game enough to try wind vane setting downwind goose winged.. I do this sailing to course no problem. I’m also not convinced yet anti-jibe works properly, Im waiting for very light conditions where I can manage an accidental jibe
Lastly the new EV series is slower to respond to the button course changes of 5 degrees or less, which is disappointing.
Mine is also servo driven, not via the wheel, and has rudder feedback, never had overload.