Transome problem solved.
My transom was, for the most part, hollow. It did flex pretty badly and even began cracking after a few days of sailing. Soooo.... I drilled a number of 1/4" holes into the top of the transom where the motor mounts (through some wide tape to prevent a mess) and filled the transom with spray foam. It took the better part of a can. The one near diss"ass"ter that I almost had was that the foam tried to expand the transom so I used C clamps and a 2-1X4s to prevent the top of the transom from swelling. 2 days later my transom was solid as a rock and has been working fine ever since. This was the most elegant and least invasive fix I could come up with. It worked. I do plan to make an aluminum bracket that will hang off of the cutout and move the motor back about 6". This is because the previous owner made a cable traveler for the main sheet that works great but prevents the motor from being raised when under sail. The bracket will cover and seal the holes I drilled. However, they could be glassed over easily. I am in PA for the weekend but when I get back, I will try to post some pics.