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it appears you are looking at everything.
Thank you Dave for you candid responses. This response is not directed at you , but I felt that I could use your quote to illustrate my point. I appreciate everyone's responses and I try to be polite and gracious. There have lots of suggestions second guessing as to what myself and wife are truly seeking. As noted in my OP (Original Post) we understand we have a number of self imposed restrictions. I listed a few boats that I was considering, and was (am) looking for other suggestion. I am not looking at everything. We still really would like a Starwind 19. In all likelihood we would keep this boat for quite some time. We have a finite budget, our home is paid for and so are our cars, we both are on "teacher's salaries" would like to upgrade from our Buccanner 18, without need to also purchase a new vehicle that could tow more at this time - we don't want new monthly payments. If I had my way I would get a VW Touareg TDI with a 7600 lbs towing capacity. Even used they are on the low end 16k, for a high milage vehicle and upwards of 30k or a newer lower milage one. You all have your own opinions but I have yet to find any american "trucks" that get decent milage and wow me, that's my opinion. I owned a ford areostar, it was poorly designed and a gas hog, difficult to work on and generally awful but I digress. We can afford a smaller trailer sailer, but not a new bigger non fuel efficient higher towing capacity vehicle AND a sailboat. We are looking to stay within our means and budget. If we lived on the coast and had an expendable expense account I'd opt for a Jeanneau Sun Odyssey 389. - Oh I keep digressing.
I was looking for other suggestions of boats in the 18 to 21' range that could accommodate a small family a for an overnight or short cruise. We like the Starwind 19, thus far we like it the best, there are many reasons however in my searches, I though it would good to seek others thoughts. Many have shared their thoughts and I tried to be quite gracious in my replies. DID I ask should we buy a new vehicle? I think not. Did I ask should we buy a sailboat we can not tow? no. Did I ask if we should buy a bigger boat to "grow" into? absolutely not. Again in my OP I was seeking other suggestions than Starwind 19 or the Precision 18. I really appreciate that folks pointed out some boats I was unfamiliar with, and graciously accepted the suggestions. At least one person referred to me in the third person (he), which could be viewed as incredible rude. Everyone, I mean, Everyone has and is entitled to their own opinions. Everyone has their own tastes, and what some define as beautiful others may shrug off as poor design or engineering and ugly. I attempted to start a thread to seek the knowledge of others to find out about possible unknown options. If anyone sees a Starwind 19 on the west coast - please let me know, or if there is a another sub 1400 pound 19 - 20 foot trailerable "cruiser" not already suggested that would be fantastic.
Again I am not trying to be rude or offensive, so please don't take my comments that in way. I really appreciate everyones opinions. Thanks -- Ian