Jackdaw,
I am not sure of how your boat points upwind, but I found on the sonars that I could often sheet out on the main and travel over to windward to get a better shape on my sail; this would get me about 10-15 degrees closer to the wind than everyone else (who all sail the same boat). In that case, it either came to getting the edge in sailing closer to the wind, or getting more speed by falling off just a few degrees. To address your jib question, the luff of a mains'l is run up the mast, which is pretty much a vertical spar. The jib, however, is run up the forestay, and even if on a furling pole, the luff is run at an angle to meet the mast (even more of an angle if you're sailing a fractional sloop). This difference in luff angles changes the area of pressure on the sail, and thus provides the sail itself less rigidity. Another thing; if your main is loose-footed, then the only reason it comes close to the centerline of the boat is because the foot is attached to the boom, which is fitted with the proper rigging (triple purchase sheet and traveler, for example) to bring the foot to the centerline. The jib is only hauled close to the center by the port or stbd. sheets, which can only pull the sail within one or two points from the centerline of the vessel. The only way I've ever seen a jib being hauled anywhere close to centerline was a Island Packet 35 that had a self tacking boom for the stays'l.
I hope this helps!
God bless,
S.S.