I learned to sail as part of a race team...they threw me on a winch and yelled pull, pull, pull and crank, crank, crank or let it out, let it out...I loved it! I read books and took a lesson and the next year we bought the Sabre 426...the rest is history! Im primarily at the helm and the navigator but hubby and I switch off to make sure we are both good on all tasks so I can bring us to an anchorage or drop the anchor, bring us to a mooring ball or catch one, bring us to dock or line handle as well as raise and trim sails. If I had to take our boat out or bring it in alone I could and so can hubby of course.