With the last kid out of the house in 6 years, my sailing dreams have been rekindled. I've been scarce from this forum for quite some time. Long before the new digs. I like it.
So, naturally, with a renewed passion for our future cruising goals, we went to see "Adrift". Then, the next day, watched "All is Lost". We both commented that no one was wearing a life jacket. And that gave us comfort because "we're not THAT stupid."
I read 'Red Sky in Mourning' years ago. Very poignant story. I don't fully recall in the book and didn't read all of this thread, but my recollection was that they were warned about the possibility of cyclones. I reckon they realized there was a risk, but figured they were good enough sailors that they could manage it.
Personally, homey don't do hurricanes.