I'm sitting here and finally registering the.... magnitude?......singularity?....coolness? of what this represents. Two ocean crossings since May, on your own boat. Sure, it's not a mauve-horned chartreuse unicorn, but just...wow!
The intellectual side of sailor me says it's planning, preparedness, and crew, so I understand why it has seemed so normal for all these months, tracking it. But I guess I'm suddenly remembering the physical and emotional components of trips like this. My hat is off to you dj, and to all your crewmembers.
So here's a post I did on Facebook the other day.
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“My philosophy is what people say about me is none of my business.”
I am who i am and what i do.
Expect nothing and accept everything.
And it makes life easier. --
We live in a world where funerals are more important than dead, marriage is more important than love and looks are more important than the soul.
We live in a packaging culture that despises content. "
Jodie foster
The above just came through on my Facebook feed - it has pushed me to write about the deep connections that seem so much more prevalent in the world of sailing than in the terrestrial (land based) world.
In meeting folks living on boats often within minutes conversations drop into a much deeper connection rather than the superficial I have often found on land. This has been happening over and over again in this trip
I've been mulling this over for some time now. Is it just where my mind is at these days? Why is this feeling happening with such frequency? I'm not complaining, it's really incredibly gratifying!
It seems the ocean removes the packaging. We are all facing the enormity of the sea. We are all aware of the temporaneous nature of our presence on earth. The sea forces us to see that so much more clearly. So one does not waste time - what little time we are blessed with - better to simply connect at our more intimate selves.
The friendships made in the close quarters of a boat, especially a sailboat, reach depths not often found in our terrestrial lives.
Indeed, here in the ocean, it is clear the soul is far more important than the packaging...
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Several sailing friends have commented they have observed the same. I think it's one of the things that really attracts me to sailing.
dj