That is exactly how you start a MSR Dragonfly camping stove.It is NOT like lighting a white gas stove and that assumption is what caused my wife to have problems.
With white gas, the gas valve is open when you are preheating but it must be closed for alcohol. You must put a small amount of liquid alcohol in the preheat bowl which is under the burner and then SHUT OFF ALL VALUES. With everything shut off, you light the preheat alcohol and let it burn out completely. When the flame goes out, crack the valve and light the alcohol comes out of the burner. If you get liquid at this time, you did not have enough preheat so you will need to start over. I found that between 1/4 and 1/2 of the bowl depth was about right for preheating.
Open the valve just enough to put some fuel in the bowl,
shut off fuel,
light bowl
wait for flame to almost die
crack open valve and it burns clean (open valve too much and much bigger fire)