Regatta Mind Set
I had company on my boat one day while sailing and came becalmed while crossing behind a pack in a Regatta, intending to stay behind them and out of their way out of courtesy. We sat in the water and waited for the breeze. But the Regatta had wind and they came back around and were coming our way, slowly, in the light wind, but surely.As we stood there, still becalmed, the 3 leaders came straight towards us. They closed and closed, despite shouts from us of "Leeward", they kept coming, made no move to indicate they were changing course, no wave or acknowledgment, ignoring us. They closed until they were 40-50 feet off, then changed slightly enough to not actually hit us. My guests, including children, were frightened. The regatta sailors gave us dirty looks, as they passed at 30 feet. I guess we should have stayed off their waterway.I think we sailors like to bash power boaters, but we too mold the rules around our own attitudes. I would like to add to the rules my own, which is to first try to avoid the potential collission proximity in the first place and make it irrelevant and then, second, try to always find a way to be the "give way" vessel.