special equipment!!
I'm with AnchorDrager, ANY boat with that kind of equipment is going to be just fine as long as she can tell the difference between a sheet and at halyard, can hold a steady course, enjoys sunrises as well as sunsets, is handy with sandpaper and a ratchet, likes going aloft, knows how to read a chart and can dock the boat in a cross wind.
Which makes me think the perfect boat is so much a combination of different things I could never find one with all of it.
Luckily, I do have one of AnchorDragers specialized pieces of equipment to instal on every boat I'll ever own.