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Scott
Higgs got it right ...
Frank, you say the guys were gesturing at you as they went by? I suppose they were specifically using their middle finger? That's pretty rude. I wouldn't give them the time of day. Why did you even bother to try to hail them?Obviously, they were the inconsiderate ones, or they would have been hailing you first. Honestly, I don't know why it seems that there are so many people (guys mostly), either in the right or in the wrong, who feel that everything has to be a confrontation so as to protect their manlihood.I've never had a problem on the water (from what I read, it seems like Lake Hopatcong must be the only waterway in the world where everybody is considerate, happy, and willing to get along with each other even on extremely busy weekends!), but from encounters on the roadway where rudeness and aggressive driving is commonplace, I find that it is far easier to ignore anybody who is agitated and save yourself any agitation or meaningless confrontations with strangers when you have no idea where they fall in the scale of mental stability.
Frank, you say the guys were gesturing at you as they went by? I suppose they were specifically using their middle finger? That's pretty rude. I wouldn't give them the time of day. Why did you even bother to try to hail them?Obviously, they were the inconsiderate ones, or they would have been hailing you first. Honestly, I don't know why it seems that there are so many people (guys mostly), either in the right or in the wrong, who feel that everything has to be a confrontation so as to protect their manlihood.I've never had a problem on the water (from what I read, it seems like Lake Hopatcong must be the only waterway in the world where everybody is considerate, happy, and willing to get along with each other even on extremely busy weekends!), but from encounters on the roadway where rudeness and aggressive driving is commonplace, I find that it is far easier to ignore anybody who is agitated and save yourself any agitation or meaningless confrontations with strangers when you have no idea where they fall in the scale of mental stability.