On our previous boat, a 1985 Ericson 35-5, we had the head intake plumbed to the sink drain. The trick here is to make sure the T is below the WL. That way you do not need a stopper in the sink. We always flushed with salt water but did a rinse with fresh when we left the boat.
Our current boat has a fresh water electric toilet with a solenoid valve. Our fresh water capacity is 175gal with a 12gph watermaker. Our second head at the base of the companionway is a Lavac with salt water intake. We do use the shower head faucet to rinse the Lavac with fresh when it gets used. This gives us the best mixture of luxury, redundancy and simplicity.
Our current boat has a fresh water electric toilet with a solenoid valve. Our fresh water capacity is 175gal with a 12gph watermaker. Our second head at the base of the companionway is a Lavac with salt water intake. We do use the shower head faucet to rinse the Lavac with fresh when it gets used. This gives us the best mixture of luxury, redundancy and simplicity.