Todd,
I'd go for a solar panel with the largest output that that can be had for the least amount of money. One, 100 Amp Hour deep cycle battery should should surfice, provided that you don't use your cabin lights all the time, and your running lights some of the time. Also, instead of using an anchor light at night, you can pick up a self contained solar powered light to hang in the stern. To tell you the truth, I don't even use my anchor light in the coves that I spend my overnighters in. I usually anchor in shallow places that other boats can't get into. I have a charging system on my outboard, but I don't have a solar collector on board. With that said, I never turn on my cabin lights except for a short duration. I keep a flashlight on board, and I use two candles at night in a quiet anchorage. I read with a battery powered round LED light in the V birth. I use my VHF occasionally when I need to open the draw bridge, but outside of that the only other draw on my battery is my Autohelm ST1000+ which I use about 99% of the time when I'm sailing. You need to figure out the load on what you are using for power. If you have a 15Watt bulb for each of your running lights, you can figure out the load in Amps by using Ohm's Law. P=VI. P stands for Power or Watts, V for Voltage and I stands for current. To convert Watts to Amps, the fomular would be I=P divided by V, or I equalls P over V. After you total up the load in Amps, you add the total use of hours. This will give you the Amp Hours on a typical cruise. Like some of the guys have mentioned in this thread, if you can convert the incandescent bulbs over to LEDs, the power consumption will be greatly reduced. I have a junky old battery powered radio that I listen to on board and I'm always consious of electric power usage on my boat. So far, this past year I haven't had to recharge my battery with shore power. My outboard has done a pretty good job of keeping my battery up, but I don't see any reason why you can't do the same thing with a 5 Watt solar collector, provided that you conserve power.
Joe