Nice to see you can skip being competitive from time to time. My wife hates “spirited” sails and they often end up in one of us being upset...
But this last weekend, we went out on a Saturday afternoon sail, knowing the winds would be light...and I was OK with that. I set the AP, cracked open a beer, poured her a wine and enjoyed the view. We sailed 10nm in like 4 hours;-( but not one got upset. I swam off the boat, in the very light winds. And when we came across another boat in the light winds and passed him, I felt vindicated. No wind, but I still won a race. Wife had no idea we were racing
The slow life can be ok too!
Greg