Here’s a trick
Since one of the goals here is to “depower” the main, what you need to do is to get the main to spill wind from the top or head of the main sail.If you install a rigid vang or Boom Kicker that holds up the boom about ten degrees above horizontal with the vang released and the main sail affixed to the boom, you will develop an easy means by which the boom is raised to loosen tension or open the leech and therefore spill wind off the head of the main sail. This effectively depowers your main.Usually before sailors experience one of these annoying rounding up situations, they are well heeled, as they are in an upwind tack from about a beam reach up to close hauled. In this situation with either a rigid vang or Boom Kicker installed as described, the object is to release the vang and then main sheet and allow the boom to raise upward. After this, the main sheet should be tensioned again for the particular tack but only to where it encounters pressure from the spring of a rigid vang or the rods of a Boom Kicker. This action should get the vessel onto a more even keel yet still allow the main to be raised for power. It is a lot easier than resorting to a reef.What I say does come into conflict with the concept about tensioning the boom vang as noted in point two of the just previous post. However, the boom vang more so tensions or closes the leech than it flattens the sail. For power, it is probably best to either close or tension the leech, while opening or loosening the leech will depower the sail. Thus for upwind work into high winds where you need to lessen the heel of the boat, you do tighten the out haul and halyard or Cunningham, but the vang should probably be loosened. For downwind work, loosen the out haul and halyard or Cunningham and the vang should probably be tightened. This makes sense when you note that when going downwind, the leech in effect becomes the luff, that it is the edge of the sail that encounters the wind first, and therefore should be straight and tight. And of course, visa-versa for upwind tacks.Not every situation, in terms of vessel, sea conditions, wind, and sailor will necessarily benefit from this procedure. However, I with my C-22 have recently reinstalled my Boom Kicker to lift the Boom as mentioned above. For upwind work in strong wind, I loosen the vang and main sheet and let the boom lift and then reposition the main sheet against the pressure of the Boom Kicker support rods. The boat heels less and weather helm is nearly eliminated. And then for downwind tacks, I apply the vang to provide added power to the main.An alternative to either a rigid vang or Boom Kicker is to use the topping lift. This can be just as effective, however, it is more difficult to set up and is not as automatic as a rigid vang or Boom Kicker.