Slide the shaft aft out of your way and remove the coupling on the shaft first. This will give you experience before you begin on the trany coupling. You must remove the two bolts with the wire, first, but that should be the most difficult part as you appear to have a bronze shaft and the coupling won't corrode to the bronze. You are going to have to be very careful NOT to beat on the coupling attached to the trany at all. Nor can you pry against the trany or you will most likely destroy the rear main oil seal on the trany. Heat, time, a good puller and PB Blaster are your friends in this case. Since you cannot give the puller a good whack when the puller is under tension, use heat. Everything should just spring apart. As difficult as it may be to believe, with the right tools, this probably won't be nearly as difficult as you are imagining.