A few things about your plan seem to be issues
First, you cannot vent a waste tank into the anchor locker...they must be vented to the outside of the boat. That's both a US and Canadian CG regulation. I would make the that vent line as short and straight as possible...and do the same for the pumpout fitting and put it on the side deck where it can easily be reached from the dock to pump out. Bladder tanks are not the best choice for waste holding, either (and btw, you cannot use an unvented bladder for waste holding because the gasses generated--whether stinky or odorless--must have a means of escape). Bladders are invariably installed in an area of the boat that’s inaccessible to install a rigid tank—stuffed down any opening into a place big enough to contain it. And only rarely are the bladders properly secured to prevent any movement. Since sailboats are typically so much more “active” than houseboats or cruisers, heeling side to side, bladders move and chafe till they leak. Fittings must be owner-installed in some bladders, and because the tank is in an inaccessible place, it is almost impossible to install the fittings correctly. Rarely, if ever, is any holding tank checked or maintained, so it isn’t at all uncommon for a bladder to blow out its fittings at the first sign of a clog—even more common in bladders that aren’t vented (which should never be used for waste holding in any event, because waste produces expanding gasses that can blow out fittings or even burst the tank, and because.methane is flammable). Furthermore, because the very nature of a bladder allows little or no air space inside it, preventing odor out the vent from a flexible tank is all but impossible. The very qualities that make bladders attractive to install make them undesirable for use for sewage holding.The Lavac, while a fine toilet, will require either a flush water intake thru-hull, or a dedicated flush water tank that will occupy storage space needed for other things....and a considerable amount of plumbing plus space for the remote pump in a location that's accessible to flush the toilet. And let's face it...there isn't enough space on any 23' boat that you want to give up for anything you don't have to!So here's what I'd do if I were you: If necessary, replace your Sanipottie with the larger 5-6 gallon 965-MSD model that can be permanently installed and fitted for pumpout. No plumbing required except a vent and pumpout hose/fitting. Because it uses so little flush water, it holds at least as many flushes as a 15-18 gallon tank connected to any marine toilet. If it turns out that's not enough, you can always add a second rigid plastic tank...reroute the pumpout line to it with a pump inline to transfer the waste...run the pumpout line off the second tank to your deck fitting. IMO, that's the simplest and least expensive way to accomplish everything you need to accomplish on a boat the size of yours. Dumping the tank at an RV dump station will require some creative plumbing...'cuz RV tanks have 3" discharge fittings and and are emptied via gravity...boat tanks must be pumped out. So to do it you'll need a pump, some hose, and some adaptors to allow you to thread the pump into the deck pumpout fitting. But it can be done. And finally, I suggest you check out the link below.