physically challenged and not there yet
Your line regarding physically challenged but not there yet, got me to thinking about our club and some of the boats and sailors there. Hopefully this will help you as others have stated in realizing that you are decades from 'hanging up the winch handle' yet.It is obvious from all the posts that the average age of posters here is likely several decades, with many approaching, at or post retirement. (Someone joked last week that the average age was 85, and that may not be far from the truth.Anyhow to the nugget of your question... what to do about your boat and dock...Our club hosted the Canada Summer games a few summers ago and we benefited by retrofitting the club, all docks and a few club boats to accommodate anyone with a physical disability. This included ramps to all access points of docks, doors, ramps storage units etc. As well, we add a couple of small swivel cranes, the type you may see in the corner of a 1/2 ton truck, as well as some lifting harnesses. I know you are not there yet but we have had a few members of our club that do not have use of their legs in any way shape or form. Our on site sailing instructor, harbour master, and a number of other club members have been versed in the use of this equipment, and users who have a disability can either call ahead, or typically just wait around for someone to assist them on and off the boats. We have a couple of Martin 16 sailboats in our fleet. These boats are built for a person with physical disabilities. Although both are joystick driven for the tiller, and all lines lead back to the reach of the upper body abled person, we also have a sip/puff controller and electric 'gizzmo' to manage all the controls for a person with quadraplegia. So without being facetious... with these boats and controls, if you can breath, you can sail! That said, you have a long way to go before you have to give up your boat for a Martin 16, but just knowing that that is a possibiliy will allow you to keep sailing into ripe old age.For now however, modifications at your dock and in your cockpit may make tasks easier for you. As others have said, lines led aft, electric winches, and either a sliding or swivel seat on an arm for tacking from side to side, may be what is needed for now. A self tending jib and roller furling, may make your sail easier as well.I am only 53 this year, but have already started modifying my boat so that I don't place myself in a situation where I may injure myself. My lines are led aft, and I have roller furling in the jib. Just this week, I extended my boat hook so that I could reach lines that have gone astray without having to go forward. I have an anchor in the stern, and the bow anchor can be set up to set from the cockpit even though it drops from the stern. I have seen a setup where the main anchor line was clipped to a line that ran from the stem to aft quarter. The anchor line was clipped to this fore and aft line, and placed overboard from the cockpit. The boat was then turned into the wind using the tiller, and the clip moved forward to the bow end, where it would stay. When retrieving the anchor, a separate messanger line that had been tied to the clip and running back to the cockpit, was simply pulled on to bring the clip and anchor rode to the cockpit, where it was pulled aboard, stowed, and sailing continued without the sailor ever having to go forward. Obviously this system could not be used in all situations, but I thought it was a great innovation.I had my come uppance a number of years ago at our flying club when I asked a 71 year old acquaintance if the reason for wearing the harness he was wearing was for assistance getting in and out of the plane. He replied, "hell no, this is my sky diving harness!" I have never questioned age and ability since.Hope these suggestions help.