If you need a new motor mount, Garhauer makes a really nice stainless steel version. Sage Marine is spec'ing them on the Sage 17, checked it out in Annapolis this past fall.
Also, keep in mind that most small outboard props are pitched for running small jon boats at speed. This is not what we do with our displacement sailboats. Two ways you can attack it are to go with a "sail pro" model, from Nissan/Tohatsu/Mercury, which have a 25" shaft, alternator, generally starting around 9hp, and include a high thrust prop. Alternately, pick the motor you like and plan to get a high thrust prop for it. Sometimes, that means larger diameter prop, sometimes that means lower pitch prop, and sometimes it means a 4 blade "Mickey Mouse ear" prop. It all depends on what the manufacturer has for the model of outboard you have. A higher thrust prop gives you more control at low speeds.