Thank you for the informative and useful reply! If you don't mind, I have a few follow-up questions based on your response?
If I am understanding correctly, I should have one of those special 'Class T' fuses between the battery and the positive Bus Bar? And also, maybe between it and the negative bus bar?
My solar panels are 2 ten watt panels. I know they won't do much besides providing some minor charging and keeping the battery topped off when sitting on the trailer in a sunny spot for a few days during a sailing vacation, but they're all that I really have room for on such a small boat. So maybe I would get more than .5 amps apiece? I was just trying to be conservative since I know sun conditions won't always provide the max energy, I assume?
My LiFePo4 battery is a 'smart' battery with a 'battery management system' and 'automatic overload protection and recovery', would either of those mitigate the problems you mentioned with using the outboard alternator? I have heard of 'voltage regulators', would something along those lines allow me to use an alternator more safely? (No need for a separate battery to start the outboard, it is a small, 5hp pull-start.
My charger, while small, is designed for Li batteries, so no worries there, but I shall look into seeing if I can manage a larger one for faster charging. My very-rough guess is that a day's sailing (including some night hours) would probably only drain about 30-40ah from the battery (I expect it to use about 2amps during the day for radio/instruments, and then maybe up to 5 at night with lights added in, but it's a very rough guess. It's a small boat with no refrigerator or microwave or radar or anything like that... just LED navigation/cabin lights, a radio, and a display for the wind and depth/speed indicators. The most power intensive item (aside from perhaps radio transmission) will be the cabin fans to use when sleeping. If I get a larger charger, would there be any danger of overloading something, or, so long as it is designed for a 12v system, I'll be good, and just enjoy faster charging times?
Finally, thank you for the note on MarineHowTo.com.... I'll peruse it and see if I can educated myself further.
Thanks very much again!