Sorry, no. If that were true, a fuel tank should also be vented inside the boat to prevent spray or waves from contaminating the fuel and we all know that's not even legal! All tanks should be vented to the outside of the boat. Properly installed water and fuel tank vents have a high arch in the vent line that prevents spray or splashing water from getting to the tank and vent thru-hulls designed to prevent it. Venting a water tank into the bilge can result in contamination by bilge odors and associated bacteria ...water overflowing out the vent (who among us has never overfilled his water tank?) or spilling out a vent high in the boat when the boat is heeled can make a real mess in a locker or lazerette.
where do you come up with some of this stuff
fuel tanks and water tanks are so much different...where did the fuel tank vent enter the picture?
there are two opinions here, but one of them does not follow the general practices of people who rig their boat specifically for sailing the oceans (or at least the ones have written books about it)...
if the vent is high and on the center line of the vessel, it will be nearly impossible to splash out the vent, even when heeling.... the vent ONLY has to be there for two reasons. 1 to vent air when filling, and 2, to allow air in to displace the water as its being used.
and if drinking water from the holding tanks, splashes a few drops in to the boat and gets into the bilge, it makes so very little difference and will NOT contaminate the bilge OR the drinking water tank..... no one will even notice. but you are correct that if one likes to walk away from the filler spigot when filling the tank there could be a problem....
but with that thought, lets use your same analogy when filling the fuel tank.... I will agree there is no cure for stupid, so as long as you take the care required there should not be any spills.
it takes a very small amount of seawater to contaminate a freshwater tank. many of the organisms that live in seawater will proliferate in a freshwater tank as well... and the ones that die in the fresh water will be, well, dead and be a contaminate.
fuel on the other hand is very different.. and there are filters in place to separate the water out, and even if the filters clog, it is easy enough to change them out... while drinking fresh water from the water tanks.