it's easy -- use 3/16" flax with teflon ptfe
However, before replacing the packing gland's 'flax' packing, consider just tightening the packing gland.This way, you could await your normal haul-out and replace the packing gland 'flax' then.There is a special wrench called a 'packing gland' wrench, it is basically just a large 'adjustable wrench', but with flatter/thinner blades. Consider buying two of them. Check on-line at westmarine or defender to see/order one.You should be able to remove the stairs, lift of the sole board in the galley, take off the 4 screws holding the engine access cover hinges and place all out of the way.Then, with one packing gland wrench inside the engine compartment on the 'locking' nut, and the other (or a large pair of water-pump pliers) on the 'packing' nut, loosen the 'locking' nut by moving it to starboard while holding the 'packing' nut tightly to prevent putting strain on the black hose.Once the 'locking' nut is loosened, just grab the 'packing' nut by two fingers (thumb and pointer) and tighten it lightly (it should have been dripping before starting, and you want it to just stop dripping now).Then tighten the 'locking' nut and verify you have somewhere between it being moist and 8 drips/minute while rotating the prop shaft by hand.Hope this helps....