If you are sailing in those conditions on a weekly basis then more purchase is probably a good idea. Also pay attention to friction, even though a block might be advertised as suitable for ½" line it may work better with a smaller diameter line. Blocks do wear and become stiffer and seize.
Ergonomics is also important, where you sit, lead angles for lines and cleats. Try different positions to see what works for you and your crew.
Even though the cloth is still crispy, the sail may have stretched. If there is a loft nearby take it to them and hang it horizontally, this will show any stretch.
Your original dealt with mainsheet loads. The initial response was to increase the power of the mainsheet which only addresses one side of the equation, the other side is to reduce the load on the mainsheet. The problem you described, excessive heel is a result of the boat being overpowered. The obvious solution to being overpowered is to not sail when it is blowing 20-30 (which at my age would get my vote
). Sail trim and reefing are also answers and perhaps more to your liking. If the boat is rounding up and heeling too much, then it is past time to reef the mainsail. Depending on the point of sail, most of our boats start wanting a reef at around 15 knots true wind and 20 knots apparent. Certainly by the time wind reaches the high twenties, the Jib should be small and a second reef in the main should be on your mind.
When the wind is in the low 20s with occasional gusts higher, then flattening the sail and inducing more twist will help to depower the main and reduce pressure on mainsheet. The outhaul should be tight, the traveler high and the mainsheet eased. This will provide power to bash through the waves and reduce heeling and rounding up. The article below is a pretty good summary on inducing sail twist in different conditions.
Selden Mast has a good rig tuning guide. While a
Loos Gauge is not essential, it makes the job easier and setting repeatable.
Remember, most people can learn to sail in a few hours with decent instruction. Mastering the art of sailing takes a lifetime.
Enjoy.
Getting the correct twist is a dynamic, ever-changing proposition, and it’s a little different on every boat.
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