I have a complaint

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Ross

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Jun 15, 2004
14,693
Islander/Wayfairer 30 sail number 25 Perryville,Md.
Many of the members of this forum post a request for information or help and then vanish never to be heard from again on that subject. I wish that when forumites posted that they had a problem and needed help finding the solution that they would be interactive in finding the solution. An Example of the type of post I am referring to is this: "Every time I go out in my boat after about one hour the water is floating the floor boards and I have to bail out the water. Does anybody know what I should do?" Then about fifteen replies will be posted and we don't get a single word in response. I can only suppose that the poor guy went out without his bailing bucket and sank with his boat. Ross in Bel Air
 
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J.B. Dyer

You're Right Ross!

A great deal of people respond and participate, but the majority just take the information and run. Even a simple thanks to the people who tried to help would be enough. They certainly had an interest when they were posting their problem and asking for help. Don't everybody get riled, if the shoe fits, slip it on.
 
Feb 4, 2005
524
Catalina C-30 Mattituck, NY
Agree

Yes, I too agree! I try to thank all respondees. I have been using this board for recent inquiries about my mast-restoration project currently underway....once I am finished I will post pictures! Rob
 

Ross

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Jun 15, 2004
14,693
Islander/Wayfairer 30 sail number 25 Perryville,Md.
Maybe all that is

needed is a reminder. Sorta like asking Johnny, "what do you say for the apple?"
 
Dec 2, 1997
9,011
- - LIttle Rock
Whether I'm thanked or not doesn't bother me...but

It's especially frustrating when the person asking doesn't provide enough info in his original post to answer his question or solve his problem, so I reply with questions to get the needed info...but he never comes back to answer 'em....just disappears. Maybe they forgot to pay the bill from their ISP?
 

Ross

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Jun 15, 2004
14,693
Islander/Wayfairer 30 sail number 25 Perryville,Md.
Peggy, you're quite

right. A question with no details is frustrating. No response to a request for details makes me wonder if the problem just went away.
 
B

Bruce

Well Maybe....

Well maybe they couldn't "navigate" to where their original posting was to find the replys. I myself posted an ask a macgregor owner question on 1/1, but already had to go into the archives yesterday to see if any one had answered it yet(not yet...).
 
May 22, 2004
130
Other CS27 Toronto
Good point Ross

I have recently changed my approach to how I respond. If I see a very short question that obviously leaves out a lot of info, or where questions raised by other posts have not been answered, I usually won't jump in myself. These are the tell tale signs of the type of poster you are complaining about. Kevin
 
Nov 23, 2004
281
Columbia 8.7 Super wide body Deltaville(Richmond)VA
It's all information!!!

Don't let the lack of a response or a thankyou get you down. Even though the original poster may not respond, rest assured that there are plenty of folks reading the follow up thread. I have gleaned tons of infomation from these "dead end" questions.Keep the responses coming.
 
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WTH

The rest of us are listening

While common courtesy would suggest acknowledging the information provided, I suspect many of the regular forum readers, like me, are learning a lot regardless of whether the initiator responds or not. Because of this site, my learning curve has been so steep, I'm in danger of sliding off. Thanks to everyone who responds -- whether their recommendation is acknowledged or not.
 

Ctskip

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Sep 21, 2005
732
other 12 wet water
Welcome to the 21 century

It happens every day from holding the door open for someone to answering the phone,to calls to businesses that go unanswered. Don't you just love answering machines? Just a kind responce to someone taking their time to help would be nice. I see it every day. Let me guess and I'd say you are at least 35 yo. Times, they are achangin.I won't let them drag me down to where I forgot my manners. Manners, you say? Let me explain.....Nah just forget it and I'll be on my way Happy New Year
 
M

Mike

A new medium

This (email) is a new medium, and I suspect that a lot of us are still getting used to communicating this way. I agree that a "thank you" to those who respond is more than appropriate. However, I once posted a request for help on this site with a battery charging question, and got a few great responses, one or two of them asking for more info. I responded to those requests by providing more info and was actually scolded by one of the other responders. The scolder felt that I had already been given lots of good advice and that I should act on that instead of trying to weasel more wisdom from the group. I ignored the scolder, but it just goes to show that there are all types out there and that short email messages are prone to be misconstrued.
 

rsn48

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Jun 7, 2005
257
- - Sewell Marina - West Vancouver
Like any organization

Like any organization, it is usually the minority that support the majority. I have been active in forums of all types - like Runner's World, Photography, model railroading, backpacking, and others - for around 10 years now. Some forums provide a "Members" area where the members are listed from top to bottom as those most active and those not. The majority of forums have members who will post an average of 4 times or less, then disappear. I personally am glad people don't thank others as it means I don't have to read those 1000's of posts thanking others; it would become meaningless and take up unnecessary forum space. I am very active in on the web backgammon, and at the beginning of every match you wish the person good luck, and end every game with a "good game." This happens so much, I don't see it any more. For me, when I do give a thank you, it is something that has been perplexing me for a while and the advise was really helpful. Other threads started by me may be more "frivolous" but helpful; for example, what kind of refrigerator do you use in your Catalina 27?" (I've never posted this) If some one posts a really good frig, that looks like I could use it, I might come in with a follow up question, which is my form of saying thank you. However, like you, I sometimes wonder what happened to the chap who came in with a question. For example, in one forum a chap was asking info on a particular boat that was in Spain, it went from - is this a scam, to I need to put a bid in with deposit to keep it available to me, to I'm going to check it out - and so we are all waiting to see what happened.
 
May 22, 2004
130
Other CS27 Toronto
Troll, there's a term I don't usually see....

associated with a sailing site. Fred, I used to see this term used all the time when I monitored some car sites. Seemed like baiting the diehard fans of a particular make or model was a favourite pastime by some. And of course the regular participants seemed to be prety good at sniffing out the trolls and labelling their posts as such. Lots of name calling. All-in-all, sailors seemed to be more polite and willing. Kevin Kevin
 
Dec 2, 2003
4,245
- - Seabeck WA
Ooh Kevin,

have you been over to the Politics forum? It was really nasty there for a while. It's been mellowing since Christmas. And I can't claim worldly internet experience with the use of 'troll'. I picked it up here. *o
 

Ross

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Jun 15, 2004
14,693
Islander/Wayfairer 30 sail number 25 Perryville,Md.
Perhaps some expansion

on this topic is in order. I am not fishing for thank yous or plaudits. I am more interested in knowing if the answers posted served the needs of the person that asked the question. Sometimes the question is vague and we ask for clarification and the petioner never responds. Sometimes the discussion is extensive and involves the originator all through the thread. Perhaps sometimes the petioner is called to duty in Outer Mongolia and can't get back to us. I think that most of us understand the nature of the cause of the complaint.
 
Dec 12, 2005
128
Hunter 34 Lowestoft
I didn't mean to be rude

Woops Thanks for all the replies I got. Much appeciated but sort of left it open to get more. No. I should have posted.
 

Ross

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Jun 15, 2004
14,693
Islander/Wayfairer 30 sail number 25 Perryville,Md.
The replies tell

us that you are still interested.
 

Joe

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Jun 1, 2004
8,311
Catalina 27 Mission Bay, San Diego
I agree with rsn48....

...I don't think I've ever posted a response with the intention of getting some kind of thank you, so that doesn't bother me too much. What irks me is when someone asks for information and then disagrees with the response. My reaction is .... you lazy SOB, do your own research.
 
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