Your mast should have one vertical "slot" hole on each side. The short "mini-shrouds" have a T-shaped metal end, with a 90-degree bend. The mast end of each cable stay is placed into the slot, and turned to horizontal and attached to the deck. Yes, one cable goes to each side (not through the mast), and they make it much easier to raise the mast, as they limit side-to-side motion of the mast. They are very quick and easy to place, and also to remove, after the mast is up. The jin-pole attaches to the front of the mast, and makes it very easy to raise the mast, even with one person. As you've probably discovered, the mast is not the lightest in weight, and even when I have a buddy to help I use the side-stays and jin-pole, because it makes it so easy. I'm not certain I can attach photos on this [new to me] forum, so perhaps you can send me an email (click on my name in the margin and select), and I'll try to get some photos and get them back to you via email.