One key difference would be that a home toilet can not build any pressure, (although I've pressurized the top bowl a few times without any permanent damage, at least not to the toilet), and so gravity flushed commodes have little opportunity to "back flush" anything back up into the system. Even with a valve, or check valve in the intake line is too big of a chance. One thimble full that can conceivably travel back up the wrong way would contaminate the entire water supply, that would demand a helluva cleaning regiment to un-contaminate the system. Valves fail. There's a million threads now of how many has, and that one would be just as bad as any. It is a mechanical entity, manufactured by man; and it WILL fail. You get to guess when.
I don't even drink water off of the boat when local, and I still wouldn't take that chance. The filthiest apparatus on the whole boat, tied into the fresh water supply. Lemme think on that one for a minute...
Keep the tank pumped out. It doesn't take but a moment. And hell, three miles ain't that far out. Go outside and turn on the macerator pump, and keep flushing it out with water, and keep the foul tankage gone.
I mean really, how much trouble is it to take a coffee cup full of water, and pour it down the bowl to keep a drop of fresh in it?
I have seen them where it is plumbed out of the gray water side, like from the vanity sink, and if I'm not mistaken, Stu has done his that way. Great plan. Decent water in, with no chance of it "back-flowing" into the fresh water.
There are probably as many ideas on how to do this, as there are people posting on this board. But plumbing a head from the fresh water tank is a poor idea on several levels, and the chances are just not worth it.