Fully expect that your soulmate (who's sailed with you for the last 8 years) can perform (without coaching) the basic steps of tacking. Tell her in a most non-descript voice that she has 4 wraps on the winch and it is about to overwrap itself in 15 knots of wind. Mutter quietly but just loud enough so she hears it "now you've
f@*&*d it up". Watch as the situation goes from bad to worse and she gets help from son #2 and finally recovers. Marvel as a now new favorite nautical terms is born when she turns and stoically states, "I
un-f@*&*d it"!!!!