Lots of factors
There are lots of factors that contribute to what is commonly called a blue water boat. I believe that one of the key factors is the 'righting moment' or the point at which a boat when knocked down will not right itself. This factor has become a subject of debate over the years. Other factors include the size and strength of the rigging and as previously stated, the amount of fuel and water that can be carried. There are many more factors and all one can do is read the many books on the market. This forum is not a really good source of info. People like myself add a lot of suppositions and are not really sure. Others add nonsense and state as fact. Also read some of the available books and take them with a grain of salt. The authors are somewhat opinionated and just because someone writes a book doesnt necessarily make them an expert.It just means that they wrote a book. Examples of blue-water boats are Baba, Westsail, Benatau,Hinkley, Juneau, some of the newer larger Catalina's ( I think, not sure.) and many many more. Also as previously stated, coastal cruisers can be upgraded to perform safely in blue water. Also keep in mind that there are good blue water boats and there are bad blue water boats. If I didnt have crosing oceans in mind, I wouldnt necessarily go out and buy a blue water boat. Most blue water boats have a narrower beam than a coastal cruiser of the same length. This gives a better ability to handle head seas and less likely to roll, however this substantially reduces the interior living space. Some boats are more 'sea kindly' than others and this factor is not normally used to determine sea worthyness, although it should be.The wider beam will also come off a wave and come to a stop. Blue water boats are generally much heavier than coastal cruisers and therefore dont sail well in light winds, some actually sail like slugs. This can be somewhat overcome by using a cruising spinnaker. Sloop rigs are generally not desireable because of the large sail area. Go for a cutter or ketch. They will both give more options in sails in various weather conditions. Bottom line is.....dont get a true blue water boat if you dont intend to sail across oceans.Also, just because someone got lucky and sailed across the ocean in a bathtub, dont think this is normally possible. We never read about the fools that die along the way.