We have been planning to cruise full time for the past eight years. Began building a financial plan so we could retire at 57 and 52 so we could afford to buy boat with cash, cruise full time, be financially set (to cruise), and planned on selling house with cash put into savings.everything was rocking along, both wife and I met with our retirement facilities and all the money would be set. Have a boat we planned on looking at next week and sounded like the one. We even discussed how much we could offer and our strategy for the deal. Did a cruise in the BVI to test our skills and knowledge. We are ready!
Then three nights ago the wife says stop. She has decided she wants to stay and watch the grand baby grow. This after we have had some serious talks about never wanting to say "what if".
I am a DAV having foot damage that will only get worse with age. We even discussed that this was our time since lantern my feet would become an issue.
How do you just stop over night after devoting the past 8 years to preparing, searching, educating yourself, building a future life cruising, and then STOP?
Then three nights ago the wife says stop. She has decided she wants to stay and watch the grand baby grow. This after we have had some serious talks about never wanting to say "what if".
I am a DAV having foot damage that will only get worse with age. We even discussed that this was our time since lantern my feet would become an issue.
How do you just stop over night after devoting the past 8 years to preparing, searching, educating yourself, building a future life cruising, and then STOP?