My foretriangle is say a little less than 650 SF. (i.e, my 100% jib's area). My asymmetrical spinnaker is about 2,000 SF. You might have a somewhat relatively smaller one -- but unless you have a little, odd one (they give names to very small, flat chutes) you shouldn't be trying to put that inside your rig! Even with a sock. You're cruising for a bruisin'.
As for the other point. When you're off the wind, or balancing the rig, you don't want the tack of the sail pulled "flat". You'll want to ease the tack line (and sometimes the halyard, which should be ABOVE the jib halyard exit at the mast head -- for a bunch of reasons). The sail will "Float" a little in front of the boat. On our boat, it might be 4'-6' off the forepeake (pole) at the tack; and, maybe a 2-3' off the masthead sheave. You'll be wrapping the top of the roller furling with a line, etc., etc.
There are bunch of things that cause a spinnaker to not be fun. Among the worst things is wrapping a halyard; next is wrapping the sail around the forestay (especially with a jib on it).