Another thought for Tom
The thinking that I have read regarding coupling the grounds notes that the AC ground (green) should NEVER carry current, as opposed to the AC neutral, which does. The only time the ground will carry current is when an appliance has a short that goes to the case, or somesuch. The ground wire is connected to the case to give such current a path to ground, without passing through the unsuspecting boatowner (or landowner,as the case may be). That would be the only time the green wire would be energized, and one would be most thankful for its presence, in such an event. But, if the AC ground is connected to the DC ground, and assuming that the DC ground is in contact with the water (as it usually is), then if the AC ground is energized, that current would pass directly into the water, increasing the potential for electrocution, not to mention electrolysis. It is not a problem generated by a poor DC ground. On the other hand, if the AC ground (green wire) is grounded ashore, through a correct shore power installation, it causes no problem, just as in a house. The reason that some advocate connecting the two grounds is so that the AC ground will always have a path to ground in the event that the shorepower wiring is not up to snuff, and the green wire is not connected to a shore ground. But, you can determine whether or not this is so by simply setting your multimeter on AC volts, and then putting one probe in the hot wire opening in your AC outlet, and the other in the ground. If you measure voltage, there has to be a complete circuit, and a connection to ground. If not, go yell at the Marina Manager! On the other hand, if your grounds are tied together on board your boat, you will ALWAYS be at the risk of an AC short going to ground through the water. Addtionally, some boats have their DC systems just run to and fro from their batteries, without connecting their common ground to the water. I don't think I would like to have an AC short energize my DC negative wires.......!