Geoff, you needed to read my post more carefully
It's toilets designed to use SEA WATER--which includes all manual toilets--that should never be connected to the fresh water system.
Almost every mfr now makes at least one toilet specifically designed to use onboard pressurized flush water... because they are designed to use water from the fresh water system, it's safe to connect 'em to it. However, except for this one
http://www.sealandtechnology.com/productpages.asp?pid=37, they're all electric.
Sailingdog said, "With the manual heads and some of the electric heads, the pump for the waste and the water intake are the same pump..."
That is NOT the reason it's unsafe to connect sea water toilets to the fresh water system. It's because, unlike household toilets, flush water goes directly into the bowl of marine toilets, and sea water toilets are not equpped with the necessary siphon breaks and backflow preventers to prevent bacteria in the bowl from migrating into the fresh water plumbing. And also because sea water toilets are designed to PULL in flush water...pressurized water is PUSHED into the toilet, causing seals, gaskets etc to become mis-aligned.
He also said that toilets designed to use pressurized fresh water use more flush water than sea water toilets. Just the opposite is true...they use LESS flush water (and less power too) than most sea water electric toilets.
Geoff, there's nothing "cobbled together" about a manual toilet that shares a thru-hull with the sink drain...several boatbuilders including Tartan have plumbed their toilets that way for decades because it eliminates one hole in the boat. It doesn't require that you always put water down the sink to flush the toilet all the time...sea water only stinks and minerals only build up in lines when sea water sits and stagnates in the system. So use sea water to flush...then use the sink to flush all the sea water out of the system before the boat will sit. Or, if you insist on flushing with fresh water all the time, there's a very simple way to add a dedicated flush water tank: Buy an UNvented bladder, any size you want. Find a location for it that's convenient to both the head sink drain line and the toilet. Tee the bladder fill line into the sink drain using a y-valve...re-route the head intake line to the bladder. No other plumbing needed. To fill the bladder, turn the y-valve and run water down the sink.
Btw, if you'd also paid a bit more attention when you are on the Raritan site, you'd have realized that by the time you got to the "Sea Fresh System" at the lnk you referenced, you'd scrolled down to the "obsolete/discontinued" part of the list. Raritan discontinued it years ago. They continue to provide manuals for it and some other discontinued equipment.