It sounds like the psychological problem is yours, not with people with fresh water flush heads.
You don't seem to understand them at all, but here are some basic points:
1. They significantly reduce the hard scale buildup in the hoses. They pretty much eliminate it, so we are never the strange people taking apart our toilet plumbing every year or so and banging all the stinking concrete out on a dock, and replacing the expensive hose every two or third bangout sessions. Those are the weird ones, for sure.
2. There is no extra tank or weight or needed space - the existing tank is used, and there is no reduction in boat speed from it. Your belief that there is is evidence that you don't know what you are talking about.
3. There is less piping than salt water flush needed because most boats have a sink in the head, and one can just tee off that supply instead of running entirely new piping from a thruhull like a saltwater flush needs.
4. And speaking of thruhulls, you don't need one for the intake at all, so one less thruhull in a boat. Isn't that supposed to be a good thing?
5. These toilets are specifically designed to not cross-contaminate the tank. Have you ever looked at the design? It just isn't possible. Again, you don't know what you are talking about.
6. It is so much easier to have guests not screw things up when all they need to do is push the flush button and not worry about closing a seacock, filling a sink, getting the flush sequence correct, and remembering to undo it all after.
7. In tannin or other staining water, the bowl stays clean and smell-free.
8. One can go to extraordinary lengths to oxygenate their holding tank to stop odors, but it won't stop rotting organisms from stinking in there. The only thing that stops that is not having them there at all with fresh water flush.
9. Have you ever had a sea creature get sucked into a raw water flush toilet? That stinks for ages with no easy way to get it out.
And how is using a blocked sink to flush with fresh water any more noble than just flushing with fresh water directly? Or any more noble than having a toilet that gives you the same choice?
Really, your obsessive foaming at the mouth workup about one's choice in toilet plumbing is not normal (and a bit unseemly in this forum), and you should have yourself checked out.
Mark