................. because when I see absolutes like this, I've just got to see for myself.
I've always assembled connectors dry first and then covered all metal (particularly the contact surfaces) with a film of dielectric and finally, assembled.
I want the grease between the contacting surfaces where any corrosion may cause problems.
I first started this practice after having the overhead lights on the boat (Frilight Sweden #8777) with the wimpy little switches, fail repeatedly. The switch mechanism is so lightweight that even the most microscopic trace corrosion on the contacts will prevent it from making good contact. I found a little dab of grease on the contacting surfaces meant never failing again (12 years and counting). At the other end of the electrical scale, I also do this with the battery terminal connectors.
Doubtful



................. take any mating terminal connectors, press them together and measure the resistance. Separate the connectors, coat the contacting surfaces with dielectric grease, jam the connectors together again and read the resistance. Repeat this numerous times and note the resistance each time. If you really want to be crude, just coat a couple of wires with dielectric grease and press together .............. no resistance.
I tried this numerous times at the battery terminals at first to ensure I wasn't getting into problems with elevated resistance. There's no change in the resistance. Original terminals still look like new.
Right now, my dielectric grease of choice is SuperLube because it does such a good job of lubricating the head piston/cylinder. If it stands up to this crap , it's not about to slough off of electrical connectors.