You know, re-reading this thread there is a lot of bad information, and confusion. First,
@tfox2069 has introduced some confusion by referring to a Victron battery monitor as a BMS, where that acronym, in the context of LiFePO4 (LFP) batteries, means something entirely different, the battery monitoring system for an array of LFP cells. Second,
@shemandr has confused the danger of Li-Ion batteries, as used in older Teslas, with LiFePO4. (BTW, Tesla is going to LFP.). The former can ignite and are difficult to extinguish. The LFPs are much less likely to ignite - in fact, difficult to ignite. If they do ignite, a CO2 extinguisher will work to put out the fire.
I think the consensus is that LFPs are safe for boats, Li-Ion not so much.
As far as wrecking alternators and controlling charge levels in LFP banks, for example, wanting to leave them at 80% SOC for storage, I don't believe the BMS we want has been introduced yet. For the alternator diode problem you really need an output from the LFP BMS that will control the field current of the alternator, or perhaps just turn the regulator off, which would also drop the field current. Once the field current drops the alternator output current drops, and then disconnecting the load doesn't produce the voltage spike that can blow the diodes. Know that it's a V = L
di/dt issue; in simple, Ohm's Law terms, if the current suddenly goes to zero, as happens when the load is disconnected, to satisfy Ohm's Law the Voltage must go to infinity, theoretically. In the real world, just very high, exceed the Vmax of the diodes. Then a BMS that would allow an all-LFP deployment and allow one to specify 80% or 100% SOC, and maybe even directly control a purpose-built regulator, or have an internal regulator for the alternator, is what one wants, I think.