good question
For the record, Ed, I own the exact same boat that Howard's question is about, an h410, and I think it manuevers superbly in close quarters. Granted, it's a little tricky parking a boat with a 14-foot beam in a 15-foot slip off a narrow fairway, but that's why fenders were invented. The question that really interests me, however, is whether I'd refuse someone grabbing a line for me in a tough docking situation, and the answer is a resounding "YES!" This is one of the first things I learned crewing for big power-yachts, is to politely ignore volunteer line handlers on the dock. The last thing you want to happen on a hundred-tonner is for someone to make fast to a cleat when the captain was planning to drift for another 10 feet. Goodbye cleat. This is a problem I often have because my home slip is adjacent to my yacht club's guest dock. If there's a transcient boat on the dock, chances are they'll volunteer a hand with docking, and if we toss a bow line it's odds on that our helper will end up hauling in hard for no reason, ultimately screwing up whatever manuever I'm attempting. My usual response, these days, is to say, "If you can just hold on to my bow pulpit once I've stopped, that will be a great help." Gets them out of the way so the crew can handle the lines.