This reminds me of the environmentalist who said that he would give his life to save a tree from being cut down. You honestly expect me to beleiee that if your families lives were at risk, you would drown before accepting rescue? 
I've never asked another person to risk their life to come and rescue me, nor would I ever. Those who sail with me today aboard my sailboat, which is a pleasure vessel, not a commercial one, are told that, up front. If we go out on the sea to play, we do not ask others to risk their lives to save us; we will do it ourselves, or die. This is no joke to me. It is one of my most important principals.