Interesting thing happened Saturday evening. Joan and I had pulled into a little bay name Canoe Neck Creek that looks like the letter C. About a third of a mile across with 7-10ft of water over much of it. Anchor down, time to enjoy the fruits of the day.Along comes another sailboat, comes over to our side, drops anchor and starts letting out lots of rope rode. Joan of course started losing it. They are now close enough that can just holler over. "How much rode are you putting down?" Ans - "Seventy feet"."Your to close for that!" Ans - "How much do you have out" - "Forty feet of chain" Ans "Ok I'll just put out 50ft"Now what? Joan is starting to make noise like go pull up our anchor and we will move. Oh no were not - they will move. And they will move when I start showering on the transom naked. After about 15-20 minutes, they start hauling in their anchor and move a little further off. See Joan they got the hint. Then they dropped 70ft again.By morning, I check to see where they were and lo and behold only about 80ft away. Still to close.How do you nicely tell someone that they are to close and to move???I known that first boat in usually sets the anchor pattern and others should ask and be polite and all that. But believe it or not this is the first time for me and I was trying to be nice..JimS/V Java