Forgot to attach the pics.....
Your triangular plate is connected wrong.
Your Mainsheet should be connected to the hole in the plate where your backstay is connected at the top of the plate.
I don't know if it's going to make any difference in the stay tension though but you need to switch those two connection points. Switch them and take another picture of the backstay and include the backstay chainplate in the pic. Your spars are Z-Diffusion like mine.
I'm wondering if that backstay was replaced and they cut it too long. Your backstay should be 1/8" wire cable.
If you completely remove your backstay and it checks out to be in serviceable condition but it was cut too long by the PO, you can do a number of things to correct the problem depending on how much you want to invest. If it's the original stay and there is another logical reason for all this slack in stay, then you need to find out why, otherwise I would get the mast up and tension the backstay with a set of come alongs and adjust the fore stay so that the mast is raked back to where it is supposed to be.
Then you are going to need to take a close measurement by lining up the backstay wire with the chain plate to mark it off where it's going to need to be cut for a new swage marine eye fitting.
I'll be honest with you. This is a job for an experience spar rigger. This is a job that I would be leery of tackling myself.
At this point I think that this is the route you should take right now, because I think you need to sail this boat long enough to decide whether you want to stick with, the end of the boom sheeting from that plate on your back stay, or go with a traveler which entails eliminating that triangular plate all together like I did.
I went a step further and had the rigger install a quick release backstay lever and it was the best decision I ever made. It's been both a work saver and a time saver on my boat, but these mods if you choose in doing them, can come gradually as you get used to sailing this boat.
To say that this, or that, is the reason for your problem would be pure conjecture for anyone on this forum including me. Maybe if we were to actually view your boat at your home port, we could make a positive evaluation to what is going on. This is where an experienced rigger comes in. I've actually trailered my boat down to D&R Marine a couple of times and had Rudy look at it. You may need to trailer your boat to a local rigger or have him come down and look at it if he'll agree to do that.
Good Luck!
Joe