Oriental is a very beautiful place. Albeit sort of "isolated". If you like a very quiet life, you'll love it. You'd have to go to New Bern for anything much to do, shopping, dining, etc. There are just to few things other than sail lofts in Oriental. PERSONALLY, I would just live closer to New Bern. Still a very popular sailing venue, but not perched on the edge of the planet.
And I've got to throw in a plug for Southport. I can live anywhere in the world my heart desires, and I'm here. I'm not sure what the circumstances that could transpire to make me go elsewhere. It's a very quiet, older, beautiful historic town, with a small sailing community, that is just fine with me. And if you want to "step out", Wilmington is thirty minutes up the road, or you can sail up there, and tie up at the city docks.
(And a nice place to winter on the hill not much further up the creek, very cheap. Do-it-yourself yard if you prefer).
It is a very economical place to live, in comparison to other sea-side towns..