The characteristics of resins used in fiberglass boats change charactersitics over time so that new resin sometimes doesn't bond to them well. The issue isn't the strength of the patch itself but whether it stays bonded to the boat under impact. Use epoxy. Sleep better.I have vinyl ester to do the repairs. I have no doubts that it will suffice.
Think about eliminating you sink drains. I've found direct sink drains to be a big pain. Everything that floats sits at the water surface inside the pipe. Despite care, this will be a lot of stuff from the galley sink. Other stuff lands on the floating things and you get a clog.
Atwood makes a box with a bilge pump and float switch in it. I suggest running all your grey water drains to one of these (or one you can build yourself) and then eliminating all those separate thru hulls and seacocks. It will even cost less in the end. The 5/8" discharge hose from the sump can be connected to a T or "Y" just before the discharge or to a thru hull just above the waterline. Fewer thru hulls means quicker diagnosis in a flooding situation and fewer seacocks to close when you leave the boat (You do close your seacocks don't you?). You can also avoid pumping soapy water overboard in a marina.
I eventually eliminated my grey water sump and just ran all the sink drains to the bilge. I wouldn't do this with a large shallow bilge where the water can slosh over a large area but I reconfigured mine when I installed the second fuel tank so that there is a small sump about the size of a gallon jug with a small bilge pump in it.
I never noticed any objectionable odor when I took the top off the Atwood grey water sump so I decided to try the direct to bilge arrangement. Never a whiff of odor last season either. Peggie says I wouldn't get away with this in a warm climate but a friend in Charleston SC sends everything to an open bilge sump on a very fancy boat and says there is no odor either. The soap from dishwashing helps keep it sweet.
Full description of my bilge arrangements here:
http://www.rogerlongboats.com/StriderFuelSystem.htm
Here is the Atwood sump which I eliminated.