On Diana I have a shore-power battery charger (Pro Mariner 12/2) and a 200a solar panel with a Blue Sky controller. I have (at present) no alternator. Both these were installed with OCD-level forethought and attention to detail. One battery starts the engine. The other two are wired as one 12VDC bank for the ‘house’. Both banks are charged (sometimes simultaneously) by both sources. Each bank has its own ‘on-off’ switch. They share chargers but there’s no way to combine them (for loads) directly. The batteries are 3-4 years old now and are always topped off at 13.6-14.4 VDC. No problem at all.
The general rule is to never combine batteries for charging or discharging unless they are the same size, same age, and same type. Most combiners and isolators these days resolve the ‘same type’ part because motorboat mentality states that one must preserve the ‘house’ battery as an emergency backup in the event of primary-battery failure (or, more likely, depletion, because of the accessories they connect to the starting bank). The ‘1-both-2-off’ switch has been the bane of battery health since the 1960s. If you have one, I strongly recommend requiring to be rid of it.
I have pics and explanation on my site - dianaofburlington.com.
‘Simplify, simplify, simplify. Then add lightness.’ - Colin Chapman (Lotus Cars)