I think I agree with everything you’re saying about DC grounding. Remember though that the OP is asking about tying the AC ground into the DC circuit. The considerations for where that AC ground point should happen are, I think, different.
Consider this case: An AC wire chafes and contacts a DC grounded fridge compressor. (This is the type of fault that the AC ground connection is meant to make safe.) The DC negative circuit is now carrying AC hot voltage, which is looking for a way to get back to earth ground. If the AC ground wire is connected to the engine block then the AC current needs to go through the fridge ground wire back to the panel, then to the DC bus, then to the engine before finding the AC ground wire. Each of those jumps represents an opportunity for a failed connection or for alternate current paths if there is corrosion. For example if the engine ground connection isn’t great some of the current might go from the ground bus through a bonding wire to a seacock, through the water, then up the prop shaft to the engine where the AC ground wire is. If the AC ground wire is tied to the DC bus then the faulted AC current goes there and doesn’t need to risk taking those extra hops.
In reality it’s probably a mostly academic argument. As long as there’s a good enough connection across the DC ground plane to carry 30 amps for a brief period of time the current will find its way back to ground a pop the AC breaker, which is the intended effect.