Get a second opinion
Paul, at 1900 hours if that is really the case, that engine is still in its infancy unless it overheated very very badly (and it is almost impossible to ruin a Yanmar by overheating it !)First, If fuel is indeed getting into the oil, it would mean that the piston rings / cylinder wall clearance would have been enlarged or distorted enough to let fuel by. Which would also mean loss of compression. So, Get somebody to take a compression test before you let anybody that your money for a rebuild.Second, if diesel fuel is getting into the crankcase, that nasty black thick oil would not be as thick. You could have it analysed.You say it has been burning oil yet there is no smoke. How much oil do you have to add in how many hours of running the engine. I just took a 3-week trip and my 3 GMF took less than ½ a quart in over 75 hours of running time mostly at 2700 RPM. It does smoke a little, but other than having to clean the transom, it runs just fine.Since you say you only put in 100 of those hours yourself, call the previous owner and ask him what the oil consumption was when he had it.Good Luck