All constructive criticizing will be put to work. You are correct about lack of experience. We sailed on Leech Lake some, But mostly Lake of the Woods, on Mn./Canada border. This lake, although not blue water by any means, is very demanding and a good teacher. Shallow in most parts, it can go from 2' to 5-6 ' waves in under 10 to 15 min. I know you are saying "big deal" it is if you in a 23' boat. We have been on the ocean in larger boats, on Lake Superior with our O'day a and also our 25' motor cruiser. Is one ever completely prepared? I did read "sail of 2 idiots" and many more. My question arose from a argument I was in about a I/o in salt water, and went from there. The other party(a dock side sailor) made mention of the fact, and I was not sure. I admit I do not know everything, never will, but the collective wisdom that places like this really make it easy to arm ones self with knowledge gained from others. We have been on the water for over 30 years now, and I am sure you are thinking, "the dumb a-- didn't even know that?" Our boat is a 1984, I bought it intentionally because of the solid glass hull. I did not want a cored hull. We have spent over 3 years in the planning stage, finally found a very lightly used boat that was built just for us. I do hope I have not offended anyone, that is not my intention. I(we) have been dreaming this dream, finally putting it all together. I had hoped by asking questions on sites like this, the collective wisdom would be offered gladly. I was not born a sailor,but am willing to try and learn.