Calling a Spade a Spade
Nice N Easy, your problem is not that someone is telling you what to do or demanding that you live your life in a certain way: mortyd certainly didn't try to do that, and no one else here has, either.Your problem is that you can't stand someone expressing an honest opinion (as he has every right to do) that makes your decisions look irresponsible. You don't have the courage of your own convictions.A real man would take it on the chin, remain civil, consider the point, and go about making his own informed decisions, instead of throwing a tantrum.Ride your motorcycles and continue to break all the bones you want (btw, that bit of information really doesn't lend any weight to ideas of your prudence or arguments), but please carry enough medical insurance so that you're not a burden to the rest of us. Beyond that, we don't really care, except about the image you help create in the public mind of all sailors.*** *** ***Gentleman,We can police ourselves, create a positive image in the public mind of sailors & sailing, or refuse common-sense precautions (Lord, inflatable harnesses are a huge leap forward in comfort/function, there's really no reason to remain contrary) and have restrictions forced upon us because we were negectful of maintainig a positive public opinion of ourselves and our sport.Thinking like an ambassador is the best way to to be left to our own devices (no pun intended).JeffP.S.— inflatable harness is on before throwing off the docklines; guests wear them too, and any non-swimer wears the foam ski vest. I'm the skipper and I'm responsible for them. I've never had anyone refuse or complain. I set the tone. One beer for the skipper only on flat water in easliy managed conditions, like when it's safe to let guests take the helm and teach them how to hold a course. Otherwise, I'm as sober as a judge until the anchor is set.