When the wind and seas get up, sailing efficiency goes down to some degree anyway, so the poor sail shape isn't of much consequence on a channel crossing of 4 to 6 hours.You have a lot more experience that I do. All of my cruising has been coastal to VA and NC or in a lake. I've owned 7 sailboats in the past 18 years and only the last two had roller furled headsails. I have not liked the sail shape on either once I start to furl. I remind myself they are not called roller reefers but furlers. What I have found on my Hunter is that she will sail very well with headsail only. So my first reef is to the main, the second is to take the main all the way down, the third is to roll in about 25% of the head sail and if it is still too much, I pack it in and motor. I can keep my H26 comfortable to about 25 mph and then I give up. .... The only solid point to connect a solent stay would be the U-bolt in the anchor locker but I'd have to leave the locker open or drill a hole in the hatch... (hmmm...that actually might work... ????) It would be really nice if I could quickly deploy a small heavy jib. I think a second set of reef points in the main would also be nice. If I could keep my boat on her feet in the 30 mph range, I'd call it a win.
Offshore, like sailing from the states to the Caribbean, should a severe squall hit you in the middle of the night, the last place you want to be is on the foredeck trying to furl the jib in 50 knots or more, I can tell you that from experience. I could give you dozens of my real life examples of why you wouldn't want hank-on jibs on your cruising boat, and that is all I'm trying to say.
I did a circumnavigation with hanked jibs. I'm not trying to be flippant or rude. IMO, cruising should be as safe as possible, especially if you are cruising alone or with your significant other. If you can handle all your gear from the cockpit, that a big step towards minimizing the dangers, as few as they are, when cruising.