My experience of sailing is admittedly minimal. And I am retired, and many of the experienced sailors I know are older than me at age 66.
But it seems to me that most of them simply cannot imagine the simple frame of reference of:
"if I do this, what will happen next, and AFTER THAT WHAT MIGHT HAPPEN?"
Most that I know seem to sail by the seat of their pants, going from one adventure to the next without any thought that the easy and most expedient way, is the way to do it.
Such as a simple one: I've towed my dinghy to the dock, pulling the other guy's dinghy. He needs to move his to the other side of the dock. I say, "We can just pull yours up on the dock and put it on the other side--easy peasy". He says, "No I'd rather row it around." I say, then you will have to climb of the dock into my dinghy, then climb into your dinghy from my dinghy, and you may lose your balance and fall in." He says, "Naaaa...." So he climbs into my dinghy, stands up, to climb into his, and promptly falls overboard.
Just typical!
But it seems to me that most of them simply cannot imagine the simple frame of reference of:
"if I do this, what will happen next, and AFTER THAT WHAT MIGHT HAPPEN?"
Most that I know seem to sail by the seat of their pants, going from one adventure to the next without any thought that the easy and most expedient way, is the way to do it.
Such as a simple one: I've towed my dinghy to the dock, pulling the other guy's dinghy. He needs to move his to the other side of the dock. I say, "We can just pull yours up on the dock and put it on the other side--easy peasy". He says, "No I'd rather row it around." I say, then you will have to climb of the dock into my dinghy, then climb into your dinghy from my dinghy, and you may lose your balance and fall in." He says, "Naaaa...." So he climbs into my dinghy, stands up, to climb into his, and promptly falls overboard.
Just typical!