Where does this need for 'Stuff' come from...?
While anchored in Sapodilla Bay, T&C a few years ago, good friends explained to us that we probably weren't actually enjoying living aboard out 42' ketch - the reason being that we were 'camping out' - as we lacked some of the systems aboard we really needed. The basis for this well-intentioned seminar was our lack of a watermaker and a similar absence for a large freezer. Their big 43' ferro cutter would produce 200 AH/day of 12V charging each morning (all of which they used and 'needed', if you can imagine) while producing copious amounts of fresh water, with which they showered at length and washed down their boat. Instead, being ill-equipped and not knowing any better, we just waited for the front, enjoyed a freshly washed boat and collected 50 gals of rainwater in perhaps 30 mins while staying dry belowdecks.'Stuff', 'systems' and 'must-haves' seem to be where it's at these days, commercially speaking. We still see the glossy new-boat ads (tho' not all that many except for the high-volume, price-boat manufacturers) but the mags and boat shows overflow with 'stuff', all of it 'important' or 'necessary' or promising to add to our please...and all of it taking up space, adding weight and a need for maintenance (sooner or later) plus the weight/space for spares, and more often than not requiring amps (AC or DC, take your pick) and a sizeable chunk of our sailing budget.Some time ago, sailing (and related activities like boat-owning and cruising) seems to have slipped into a parallel universe for most of us. The critical issues - and certainly ones discussed at length on this BB and others - have evolved into which systems to install, which brands to favor, and to haul off with us as much of our home lifestyle as we can. The fact that we haul this lifestyle only as far as a slip, after which most of our boats rarely move more than a few miles from homebase, has become so normal as to seem...well, normal. RVs at the water's edge. Or a mobile Mini-USA when we're off visiting foreign shores.Is any of this wrong? Not in my mind, altho' I would describe it as 'distracting' or 'distorting'. Were our friends right - were we lacking in essentials that would have increased our pleasure, perhaps keeping us from wanting to cruise even further afield? Well, their boat's buried in a snowdrift near Toronto now and, altho' I'd love to have their weekly paychecks, we continue to find adventure and pleasure by cruising on a boat where we - gasp! - need to conserve water on occasion.A watermaker on a 25' boat? Oh, my...Jack