OK, I'll give it a try.
The way a boat moves in waves is governed by its Froude number. Boats with the same Froude number will respond the same way to waves. Froude number is a function of velocity (speed of the wave in this case) and the inverse of the square root of length. Mass doesn't enter in to the equation.
The length in this case is your lwl. The reason a big ship does not move as much in the same waves is its great length, not its greater mass. A boat's mass goes up as the cube of its length. The force and energy of the boat's movement are both linear functions of mass. So as length goes up, response to waves only goes up by the inverse of the square root of the length, while force and energy go up by its cube. So longer boats need heavier ground tackle, whether an anchor, or mooring.
By the way, I would think, it would be the max force through wave cycles that would be the biggest danger to ground tackle, because some force will overwhelm some component of the system, for instance, pulling it out of the bottom, or breaking a component. Energy tends to be a problem only for line, which can accumulate increasing heat or abrasion as a result of repetitive stretching, leading to fiber breakdown.
As a result, the West Marine (and other) recommendations for anchor rode strength, and anchor weight increase with boat length. The recommendation for nylon rode thickness is 1/8" per 9 feet of lwl. (Strength goes up with the square of thickness.)
So a longer, heavier boat will require heavier mooring gear.
While this is a general, dimensional analysis, reading more detailed analyses and experiments will produce the same conclusion. Detailed dynamics are complex. Wind speed can be important at higher velocities. Wind acts on the cross section of the boat and varies with the square of the velocity. In open water, (that is infinite fetch) wave height and energy increase with wind speed, and waves remain the dominant issue.